I couldn’t write yesterday. My mind was clouded and overcome with the lingering thoughts and visions from the Yom Kippur services I attended. I stayed in a hotel close to the synagogue, so I wouldn’t have to drive back and forth to the various services.
Yom Kippur is always an extremely emotional time for me. The prayers speak to me, the Cantor and his voice always causes me to be a bit teary-eyed, with his soulful, plaintive and almost heart-breaking sounds that emanate from his mouth.
But, this year, there was more emotion due to some of the attendees. Just before service began on Sunday night a group of about 20-24 servicemen and servicewomen entered the synagogue in army fatigues, and wearing yarmulkes. Most of them looked to be between the ages of 18-24, maybe one or two were in their early 30s. The youthful looks of their faces, and the seriousness of their expressions overwhelmed me, and struck me to the core.
During the service when the Rabbi held the Torah, and began to walk with it through the aisles of the synagogue I was in awe at the sight unfolding. As she proceeded towards the rows that the service men and women were sitting in, she made sure that she walked through those particular rows, deliberately, and stopped in front of each military person so they could have the opportunity to touch the Torah, and not have to stand in a line at the end of their row. The army troops touched the Torah with the corner of their siddurs, and kissed the siddurs afterwards. It was such a powerful moment to be a witness to.
I can’t begin to tell you what that visual evoked in me. I couldn’t help myself, and tears just flowed from my eyes. It was one of the most beautiful, inspiring, poignant and important moments that I have witnessed, ever, in my entire life. It was a profound experience to be able to be a minute part of that moment. To be in G-ds presence, with the Torah so close at hand, exposing the humanity and the hearts of those army individuals, as their serious and sober expressions told it all, was extremely illuminating.
It affected every person in the synagogue, both during the services on Sunday night and on Monday, when they returned.
I know that this sounds simple, and that my prose is not filled with dramatic or intense content, but you literally had to be there to bear witness to the scene. It was overpowering in so many aspects.
May their journeys in the line of duty be safe ones. I pray that they were sealed in the book of life for another year.

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The Feast of Tabernacles, or Succoth/Sukkot, is almost upon us. During the festival “temporary booths or dwellings” are built and inhabited, meals are eaten inside them, and some families sleep in them. It is a lovely tradition, referred to as “Z’man Simchateinu”, or “the Season of our Rejoicing”. It is symbolic of the “temporary booths” the Israelites dwelt in when they were wandering in the desert for forty years.
Making a family tradition out of hand building a sukkah/succah can be a joyous experience. It can be frustrating to those who are not good with building or creating with their hands. But, the joy normally overtakes the frustration, in my opinion, as memories are also built. Memories build our internal and spiritual succahs, and the remembrances are handed down to future generations.
Sukkahs are made from products of the earth, but the products may no longer be attached to the earth.
Sukkahs are built outside, but there can be an exception. Building one from scratch doesn’t have to be a tedious endeavor. Getting the family together and having each person participate, brings lovely meaning to Sukkhot and to the creating of the Sukkah. Sukkahs are often built by trial and error, and family participation can lighten the burden.
If one’s health doesn’t permit it, just eat your meals in it, and if that isn’t possible. enter and stay as much as possible. One who is in ill health is not obligated to eat in a Sukkah, and if the weather makes it difficult to do so, the same applies, and one is exempt.
If one has medical issues, they can just eat their meals inside the sukkah. Some times that isn’t possible, due to severe medical problems, where individuals can not eat or sleep outdoors (severe allergies to certain indigenous environments, immune system problems, etc. If one is not in good health, it is not required of them that they eat in a sukkah. If weather conditions are a problem, the same applies…there is no obligation.
For those with severe medical issues, etc., and can’t be outdoors, you can create a makeshift Sukkah, a tent, inside your home, by using an old 100% cotton sheet (the roof must be organic), with three sides. It’s easy to build by looping the corners of the sheet to a non moving ceiling fan, and letting the sheet hang down. One can make creative canopies or tents by tacking or draping organic material from a ceiling and letting the sides hang down. It can then be used to fit a chair/s inside it, with a small table made by turning over a large and sturdy cardboard box. You could also build it by tacking an organic sheet to the walls of an alcove in your house. You can add photographs, hand crafted items, hangings, etc. inside. It is simple, yet effective and fulfills the mitzvah of Sukkot.
Sitting inside a sukkah brings one to ponder our ancient people, the Jewish culture and its traditions, how they wandered and survived for forty years, and the true meaning of Sukkot, as part of our heritage.
Jew Wishes…Peace to you all.
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Wednesday September 30, 2009 – 12 Tishrei, 5770






You can create a makeshift Sukkah, a tent, inside your home
Is this halakhically acceptable?
By: ilanadavita on September 30, 2009
at 2:08 pm
My Rabbi said that it was acceptable for those who are disabled, have severe medical issues, and are medically unable to be outdoors, or exposed to any outdoor environmental element. This is not permitted for the general Jewish population.
By: jewwishes on September 30, 2009
at 2:28 pm
Interesting answer. Thanks for being so quick!
By: ilanadavita on September 30, 2009
at 2:48 pm
I happened to be on my blog when you commented.
Last year a congregant asked the Rabbi that question. I thought it was an interesting concept, and answer, myself.
By: jewwishes on September 30, 2009
at 2:56 pm
Such sukkah ideas I’ve never heard! Yeah, why not . . . ? Make it and they will come.
Young soldiers are such a normal part of our life in Israel. But I can see why you felt like you did seeing the American ones. So many of yours serve so far from home, so far from any Jewish life.
Actually, we here can never have a Yom Kippur without remembering how we were sitting in the synagogues when the sirens wailed and the Yom Kippur War began in 1973. The memory of the 2700 who died fighting is especially heavy upon us on the Day of Atonement.
That is a big and beautiful synagogue you have.
Chag sameach, have a happy Sukkot.
By: Dina on September 30, 2009
at 3:21 pm
Dina: So true, “make it and they will come”.
I know young soldiers are such a normal part of your life in Israel…
I can only imagine how it was for all of you in 1973… I shudder to think…
Chag sameach, happy Sukkot to you, also.
By: jewwishes on September 30, 2009
at 7:18 pm
Thank your for your post on the Succah. I did not realize or was I ever told this. I am going to speak to my Rabbi about this. I find out his take. Thank you for that interesting post. I also want to thank you for the wonderful experience you had with the service men and women. Your message was very powerful. This especially had a true meaning me for me as my son, David will be leaving for boot camp in June.
Like always your photographs are beautiful.
Have a continued joyous holiday.
Susan
By: Susan on September 30, 2009
at 6:25 pm
Thanks for your kind words, as always, Susan.
Yes, speak to your Rabbi…I would be interested in knowing his thoughts on it.
My experience is indefinable…as you can tell…
Yes, I know about David. I remember when my son, Scott, left for boot camp in 1990, and was in the first Gulf War. It was such an overwhelmingly stressful time.
I wish you strength…
Chag sameach…happy holiday.
By: jewwishes on September 30, 2009
at 7:21 pm
such a touching post.
Aloha, Friend!
Comfort Spiral
By: cloudia on September 30, 2009
at 9:28 pm
Aloha, Cloudia.
By: jewwishes on October 1, 2009
at 7:50 am
loved your story about the visiting soldiers. what a welcoming congregation!
we build an indoor sukkah each year – post goes up tomorrow with pictures! it’s just a supplement to our “real” sukkah but i love it and so do the kids.
By: phyllis on September 30, 2009
at 10:39 pm
Thank you, Phyllis.
I bet the kids love the indoor sukkah! I can’t wait to see the photos.
By: jewwishes on October 1, 2009
at 7:51 am
Your Yom Kippur experience sounds as if it was ultimately moving. I totally understand.
By: rachel on October 1, 2009
at 2:58 am
Rachel…yes, extremely moving. I know you understand.
By: jewwishes on October 2, 2009
at 2:49 pm
Yom Kippur and those young people facing one of the many sick wars raging around this mad world … I understand you were floored emotionally. Just reading your post made me cry.
May they all come home safely … from my mouth to G-d’s ears.
Being handicapped I have celebrated Sukkot indoors, under an indoor sukkah, for years now. We do make the sukkah of branches of fir trees, though. Cheating myself, I guess.
I’m surprised people don’t know this is allowed. When I first got married (in 1960, 1st marrige) I celebrated Sukkot indoors, because of my father-in-law’s bad health. A relative – a Rabbi – was present and actually found my ‘cheating’ with the real branches a great idea.
Thank you, JW, for allowing me to celebrate Yom Kippur with a friend and ‘landswoman’.
Shalom,
Deborah
By: Deborah Rey on October 2, 2009
at 4:34 am
Deborah: Yes, may they be safe within the turmoil.
Thanks for the update on your indoor Sukkot experiences.
Shabbat Shalom, Chag Sameach!
By: jewwishes on October 2, 2009
at 2:50 pm
Oi, your son was in the Gulf War?!
By: Dina on October 2, 2009
at 4:50 pm
Dina: Yes, he was in the first Gulf War. As a mother, it was an overwhelming period of time for me.
By: jewwishes on October 2, 2009
at 5:24 pm